If you don’t have anything nice to say, get off the Internet. If you have the audacity to make rude and unwarranted sexual remarks when we haven’t even met in real life, then I certainly have the courage and the right to stand up against your disgusting and poor communication skills.Don’t serve out your bullshit if you’re not willing to take on the mess. It’s getting extremely tiring for women who are serious about finding someone special having to weed through rude and unnecessary messages online and spoken to like they’re nothing.

Over the years, I’ve received a lot of awful messages from guys online, and I’m definitely not alone in this.

Women are constantly being treated badly by some asshat hiding behind his keyboard and I’ve had enough of it. That’s not to say I’m going to publicly humiliate you because I’m not that petty, but I could if I wanted to.

Not only is this totally not OK, but I also deserve way better. The internet is pretty good at making really unnecessary asshole behavior a viral story so you should think before you send rude messages to someone.

Your asshole behavior just might show up in your employer’s or mom’s newsfeed if you mess with the wrong woman. I’m so over being made to feel like I need to just suck it up and deal with guys like this online.

Newsflash — a grown man wouldn’t insult me online to validate himself.

I really hope you can aspire to be a better person because hurting a complete stranger and killing my hopefulness to find love is the most soulless thing a person can do. If no one calls you out, you’re never going to stop.

If no one calls you out for behaving like an imbecile, you’re never going to learn, so please allow me to step up to the plate and say what many women are afraid to — you’re not a nice person and you clearly have some issues.

The way I see it is that the longer this behavior continues without being addressed, the more new assholes come to the surface. I didn’t do anything to deserve this complete bullshit.

In just a few years, I’ve been spoken to rudely online by more men than one woman should experience in a lifetime.

I’m done being the nice girl and I stopped letting people walk all over me in high-school.

If you send me rude messages online, I have every right to tell you to fuck off — I deserve better.