I essentially built walls to protect myself from another heartbreak.Last fall I decided that it's OK for me to move on and try to find someone to love again. I have tried a couple of different sites and even casually dated someone for a couple of months before he told me he basically wasn't that into me.

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My theory is that for many people, online dating is like a card game.

With Tinder, for instance, they might spend all night swiping left and right with no real intention of meet their matches. It's frustrating for sure, but better those people disappear than waste your time.

In the business world, sometimes the answer is "no." Because of this, you may find yourself in the situation of needing to write a rejection letter on behalf of your company.

Hi Meredith, I am an independent woman in my early 30s.

I have a great job, I own a house, and I feel like I have my head on straight.

I have also been single for close to a decade (mostly due to my own fear of getting into another relationship).My last relationship (in my early 20s) left me insecure and afraid of getting close to another man. I decided to spend my time earning my graduate degree, finding a job, and getting all my ducks in a row.I have tried all kinds of different email introductions — referencing written profiles, referencing photos, being funny, being unfunny, being interesting, being boring, etc., but I have yet to have even one man write back.I find this especially frustrating when emailing a man who may have already liked one of my pictures, or "winked" or liked my profile in general. I realize that it's a game of numbers, but I don't know if I have the constitution to take tacit rejection.How do I maintain a positive outlook in the face of rejection? I am prepared to be old and alone, but it would be awfully nice to have someone to share my life with.– Desert Island a numbers game, but you won't win anything if you're exhausted and feeling bad about yourself. It's OK to spend a few weeks letting men email you. It helps to have quality, out-of-the-house social time to balance all of the hours spent staring at your computer, wondering why some guy winked and then disappeared. I wish I could tell you why these guys wink, like, and then ignore your emails.