There are a few different thoughts on why people might believe this, ranging from fluctuating testosterone levels to general horniness. During the last year, I’ve been attempting to go on and off in my personal masturbation habits.

For instance, as opposed to approaching and having a casual friendly conversation, I was likely to use more sexual innuendos and be more direct about my intentions.

The second big observation from abstinence was my level of motivation.

Not just motivation to go out and meet women, but my motivation to do other productive things in life, like exercising or writing for example.

This was the complete opposite of weeks where I masturbated on a frequent basis.

I’d just sit around the house all day watching TV, surfing the web and…uhh masturbating. Essentially, testosterone is what helps make a man a man.

It’s responsible for developing muscle and overall body fitness, not an unusual trait in an alpha male.Also, it helps to charge the male libido and sex drive.Becoming aware of the forms that abuse can take helps you to be better prepared to recognize such behavior as abusive.Once you are able to label abuse, you can begin to take steps necessary to stop it from happening or repeating.t’s been four days of abstaining from masturbation and I feel like I’m going to explode.The first day is always the hardest, days two and three usually aren’t bad, but once you get to day four the buildup of sexual tension begins to bear down so much that the slightest breeze is cause enough for an erection. Simple, to understand the effects that male masturbation has on his ability to attract women. There is an idea floating around that basically says that if a man abstains from ejaculating he will be more likely to pursue and attract females.