Some things you can expect from these dabblers: jealousy, awkwardness, uncomfortable behavior, and a lack of common politeness.

Bear in mind that a lot of the people who want to try it for the first time are not the target audience.

These are couples who really just want the thrill of the idea, and they don’t really want to swing.

Maybe they heard about the idea at a party, maybe they just saw that there was an option for “searching for couples” on their dating site and clicked on it for shits and giggles.

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Whether you’re new to swinging or an old hand, you already know a few things about the lifestyle. Even if you’ve never done it before, you’ve probably met someone who has, heard about the lifestyle from others, or are just attracted because it sounds so exciting.

A lot of people are worried before they start swinging.

They think they’ll get scammed, or they’ll have personal issues, or they won’t enjoy it as much as they think they will. Swinging used to mean going to uncomfortable “meet & greets.” You’d sit there with your partner, talking to other couples, eating stupid little appetizers and making small talk, and knowing everyone was looking everyone else over, imagining them naked, and judging them.

In our experience, most of these are totally unfounded—with the exception of the scam. That is a very old model of the swinging lifestyle. Compared to these sites, the awkward old meet & greets are more like blind dates, if you thought that you HAD to go home with someone at the end of a blind date. Essentially, a good swinger site should exist for your need, not for the needs of the web provider.